WHY NOT LIVE SOMEWHERE ELSE FOR A WHILE?

 

 

There is no place like home.....right? But I have a piece of advice for you....maybe you won't do it now, maybe not even in the next decade but sometime in your life, plan to live in another country. Do this for a year, at least. Properly experience another way of life. Come to understand a different culture. Get to know a destination in a way that is impossible for a short-term visitor. You will never regret doing it.

There are many reasons to relocate abroad — for work, study, love, retirement, a fresh start, or a better quality of life. No matter what your reason is, living abroad is worth it; if not for the numerous benefits –– like making life-long international friends and having better career prospects  and if nothing else then at least for unearthing what you don’t like and what you’re capable of doing on your own.

Whether you’ve already decided to settle in another country for a short time or you’re on the fence, this list will open your eyes to 14 great reasons why thousands of people are choosing to live overseas each year.

 

1. Stepping out of your comfort zone

Moving abroad is not just about stepping out of your comfort zone, it’s more like jumping off the bungee jumping [latform . This is especially true when you’re leaving a small, quiet city like Lucknow or Pune to find yourself in a bustling metropolis like Melbourne, Barcelona, Berlin, Paris or Milan. Not only will you find yourself in a new city, where you may or may not speak the language but you’ll also have to find housing abroad, plan your finances, make new friends, embrace a new culture, and much more. But don’t see this as an anxious, overwhelming experience. Most people who move abroad say that they needed this boost to understand their true potential or simply to get out of the rut of their everyday life. Life was becoming too boring, monotonous and predictable, they felt.

 

2. Becoming self-reliant and resourceful

When you live abroad, there’s a lot you need to do yourself. You’ll have to face new challenges, bureaucracy, deal with homesickness, manage budgets, etc. There’s no doubt you’ll have hundreds of questions. How do I pay taxes here? Or even simple things like how do I change the light bulb?

Even though you might not have all the answers at first, you’ll be surprised at your resilience and resourcefulness. I managed to find a flat to stay within 5 days in Melbourne and within a day in Adelaide! Doing things yourself things that, you never thought you could do yourself or manage alone,  let alone in a foreign environment , will make you realize your true potentials! The new skills that you develop will make you feel strong and your self-confidence will skyrocket. You’ll feel prepared for anything that comes your way.

 

3. Adapting to situations easily

Living abroad will mean coming across unexpected situations or perspectives that are deeply, culturally rooted. Finding out that almost everyone cycles in The Netherlands as it’s the most popular means of public transport was something new to a middle class Indian in me who associated bicycles with students, poor people and health freaks. Or learning that you’ve to be quiet on Sundays in Germany because of the “quiet hours” and adopt Fridays as weekly off instead of Sunday in Dubai were all about adopting to the local culture.

The local culture, tradition, and beliefs of people will be different and getting used to these differences might feel uncomfortable. But adapting to these new situations is the best way to integrate. And remember, adapting doesn’t mean changing your own beliefs or habits for others. It just means being respectful of others and being accommodating.

 

4. Developing cultural awareness

Living abroad will heighten your awareness of the many fascinating cultures around you. If you live in a small town, you’ll experience total cultural immersion; perfect for language learners. If you’re planning to live in a metropolitan city like Munich or Rome, you’ll come across a multitude of languages on the streets.

Having a mix of local and international friends will also introduce you to new music, local cuisines, foreign movies or shows, and so much more. You’ll even uncover some interesting cultural habits and find out just how true those stereotypes are or aren’t. For instance, in Germany almost every video is dubbed and in Spain siestas are on their way out, not like Kolkata.

 

5. Making friends from all over the world

With so many people deciding to work or study abroad these days, there’re plenty of vibrant expat communities for you to become part of or live close to. The best part is that these people are in the same boat as you and connecting over shared experiences or interests is a great way to make lifelong connections abroad.

The biggest mistake people end up doing abroad is looking for Indian friends to befriend and Indian food to eat. That is not why you left the comfort of your home! Experience newer cultures, newer cuisine and most importantly new people. Join the many student organizations at university, join a sport club, take up a hobby, go fishing or watch cricket or soccer with new friends and start belonging to your new found hometown. You may have to deal with homesickness or some degree of a culture shock. But it’ll pass. As long as you’re open to jumping into conversations, saying yes to those invites, and exploring the city with your new acquaintances, you’re going to have a new group of friends before you know it!

 

6. Having more opportunities to travel

One of the best “side effects” of moving abroad is the newfound love for exploring new places. And since most European cities are well connected by multiple modes of public transport, you’ll be able to visit nearby cities or countries easily. If you’re a student or below 26, you’ll most likely get free entry to museums and big discounts on travel using a Rail Pass.  Imagine taking the cruise from The Netherlands to Norway or living in Barcelona and driving up to Valencia or Paris for the weekend!

 

7. Learning how to effectively manage a budget

This might be the very first time that you’re living on your own. Or it’s the first time that you’re dealing with a country that has a different currency or a significantly different cost of living. Figuring out how much to budget or more importantly, how to stick within budget is a life-saving skill. You don’t want to spend all your hard earned money within a week and survive on cup noodles for the rest of the month. Been there, and done that….it feels both stupid and awful!

That’s why it’s important to research the cost of living to make a realistic budget. And this means knowing how much you’ll spend on rent, groceries, leisure, and more. The internet is resourceful and you can easily look up cost of living in Spain or specifically look for living on a student budget in a city like Milan.

A budget helps to set goals and save up for something. You can also download one of the free expense tracking apps, at least for the first few months, to know how much you’re spending and on what. If any money is left at the end of the fortnight put it into savings for a rainy day or treat yourself to something nice….may be a short trip to a nearby city!

 

8. Discovering how to manage relationships

Once you’re away from home, you’re going to learn a lot about keeping up with multiple types of relationships. Not only will you need to remain in touch with your friends and family back home, who may be in a completely different time zone, but you’ll also need to set aside time to nurture the new relationships that you’re trying to make.  If you’re finding it hard to manage, pick one night a week to reach out to loved ones over video call and try to spend the rest of your time making new friends and figuring out your life abroad.

 

9. Learning a new language

Unless you’re moving to an English speaking country, chances are that you don’t know the local language of the area. Or maybe you studied it in middle school but that’s not going to cut it in the “real world”. While English can usually get you by in most student or expat communities, learning a bit of Spanish before you move to Spain or German before you take off to Austria or Germany will make your life so much easier. And if you’re moving to integrate completely and become fluent, then you’re in for a treat once you arrive. You’ll pick up even more from everyday interactions, such as going to the supermarket and interacting with the locals.

 

10. Improving both verbal and non-verbal communication

Different cultures have different ways of communicating. Some cultures are more expressive with their emotions and hands, whereas other cultures prefer brevity and directness. When you’re living abroad and are surrounded by a multicultural group of people, you’ll notice how each person communicates, both verbally and non-verbally. Over time, you’ll become sensitive to these differences and communicate with others in a way that is respectful and inclusive. An asset in this multicultural world!

 

11. Better career prospects

The biggest reason people move overseas is because they’ve found a job abroad. Maybe you want to leave overworking behind or the lack of paid leave and work in countries like The Netherlands or Germany where these things are given more importance. No matter what your reason is, a great benefit of moving abroad for work includes a better job prospect. And maybe you don’t even have to move abroad. If you’re already studying abroad, then finding a job or internship would be a great next step to better your career prospects in the long run.

When you work or intern abroad, you’re able to show that you’re someone who is willing to take risks, you’re adaptable, independent, quick to learn, and good at intercultural communication; all skills that are valuable in the eyes of an employer.

 

12. Expanding your professional connections

When you move abroad, it’s highly likely that you’re on your own and without a solid network to rely on. When it comes to switching jobs or finding your first job, connections can be crucial. Especially in countries like Italy or Spain where word of mouth and strength of the professional relationship can often sway who gets the job (sometimes even before it is publicly advertised).

So it’s very important to take some time and be a little brave when it comes to making new professional connections. Attend networking events or if you’re more of an introvert, add your colleagues and other thought leaders as a LinkedIn connection. Either way, stay in touch and develop that relationship. You never know where your next job will come from!

 

13. Gaining a global mindset

It doesn’t matter if this is your first time living overseas or you’re a seasoned expat; moving abroad to a new country will undoubtedly help in developing a global mindset. Having a global mindset means gaining cultural awareness, becoming aware of your biases, and becoming great at adapting to people from different cultural backgrounds. And while you can read or watch videos to prepare yourself, there’s no better way to gain a global perspective than to live abroad.

Having the adventure of working or studying abroad is a fantastic way to find yourself in circumstances that you’d never encounter otherwise. It presents you with an opportunity to “learn by doing”. Over time, you’re bound to develop a global mindset without even trying hard.

 

14. Learning Patience

When you live in a new city, there will always be a learning curve. You’re going to get lost a few times on your way back home and communicating with a language barrier and making new friends can be difficult at best. But it’s all about pushing through and having the patience to make it through the adjustment period. Like with all things in life, living abroad gets easier with time.

 

So if you are just finishing school, or college, or on the verge of a professional career, or if you are sick of life’s monotony, or are thinking about an interesting retirement, choose the city of your dreams and plan to spend a few years there! You will be surprised to discover a much improved 2.0 version of yourself, far more efficient than the older version who left home!!